A Friendship with a Healer’s Doctor

In Taiwan, some people seem destined to be our friends, as if fate had already arranged it, merely awaiting the moment of encounter. Dr. Chen is just such a friend—a gift from this land, handed over with care.

I recall our first meeting, where I confidently shared my philosophy on health: “Exercise regularly and minimize doctor visits.” At the time, I had no idea that the person listening so patiently was one of Taichung’s most respected doctors. Behind his warm smile, I sensed a hint of tolerance—tolerance for a friend with perhaps a touch of naivety. He listened quietly, with a patience that seemed a courtesy but also revealed a deep wisdom.

Looking back, perhaps Dr. Chen might have thought, “Ah, the bliss of ignorance,” but he said nothing. His restraint and grace left a lasting impression on me. In the days that followed, as our friendship grew, I learned the beauty of “harmony despite differences.” He never critiqued my opinions but simply smiled. True understanding, I’ve come to realize, lies not in sharing identical views but in mutual respect.

I often joked that spending time dining with him was my “health strategy.” Those shared moments, like the fresh taste of seafood at Qingsong Restaurant, became precious memories for my wife and me. Last New Year, he even drove us from Taichung to Taipei, and on to Hualien, Pingtung, and Kaohsiung—a journey that felt like an exploration of his rich life. Along the way, he shared insights from his own experiences, occasionally offering words that left an unexpected impact on me.

His guidance on investment, always given generously, has been an invaluable gift. His advice, “focus on your core business for long-term success,” has added stability to my ventures. In retrospect, this was more than friendly advice; it felt like the genuine care of a mentor.

Dr. Chen is a fascinating friend. Our conversations range from profound to light-hearted, and regardless of the topic, there’s always a feeling of ease. His presence is a source of comfort, a reminder that the world isn’t so lonely and that life holds warmth and meaning.

I am grateful for this encounter and for this land, which brought us together as friends. I wish Dr. Chen and his family nothing but peace and joy. May this thread of fate continue to weave, and let us cherish the beautiful times ahead.

November 12, 2024